Why is it that in any other area in life if you research something and read up on how to do it better it is considered a good thing but in dating it is frowned upon?
JUST BECAUSE YOU READ BOOKS DOESN'T MAKE YOU A PLAYER OR A "HUNTER"!
I don’t frown upon reading books to feel more confident about dating or to gain insight about the opposite sex. I think it’s a great idea. The problem is that perhaps it is easy for some to take those books and become a bit dogmatic or even misinterpret them.
Hey it happens with the Bible, the Koran, the constitution etc
