Alright people! Maika's life just got a tad more interesting.
I woke up this morning to a lengthy text from exW about how she's seeing someone and she took the kids to meet him and his kids to a fast food joint to kinda interact informally. She introduced him as a 'friend', and will probably talk to them about who he is as things progress between them.
So, not the best way to wake up in the morning. It didn't really hit me in the nuts as I had imagined it would. I figured she's been on the dating scene for a long time and this was going to happen at some point. What I am annoyed about is that she introduced the kids to him, even if it was informally, without first letting me know. The only reason for this is that we had agreed on this previously. Clearly I am not happy about that.
I haven't responded back to her but I'll do so later today. Part of what she wrote was that him and I would get along quite well - WTF??? I am still amazed at what the WS/WAS is thinking? Like what - we're going to be some stupid version of the Modern Family? It's really mind boggling for her to think that this could be a reality. Of course I will be civil and etc, but for me to interact with someone she's banging beyond the appropriate politeness and civility is out of the question.
I have always intended to meet anyone she's introducing the kids to. In my response to her I will asking her to set up a meet as soon as possible before things progress further and he's around my kids more.
I think I will probably have a stronger emotional response to this later in the day. Right now I am not really feeling anything outside of the impact to the kids.
But if anything, this has kinda lit a small fire under my ass to keep my $hit moving and keep at my goals with even more determination. I am still doing good. The separation agreement stuff is moving ahead and hopefully gets resolved very soon.
Gonna take the day to let it all sink in and then see what the next steps are for me. I guess the timing is about right - separation and divorce is getting finalized in the next few months and she's already found someone. The closure to all of this is coming as a trifecta. Wow!
