New thread- Newcomer pre-bomb drop

[Bern19]

Quick Update- on the vaca with the family. Had a bit of a setback with the wife when I was holding her phone for navigation purposes and she got a text from someone I didn’t recognize. I let it get to me as I started to wonder if she’s back in contact with the OM. Turns out she sold something on eBay and the message was from them. She got a bit testy, rolled her eyes and said “ that’s a great way to start a vacation “. So then I’m upset because it appears she still has no clue what it’s like to wonder if Your being lied to, again. To wonder if their treachery continues... once we get home, we’ll need to have that conversation about boundaries, transparency and how to better handle the lack of trust I have in her.

But right now, I’m focused on having fun with the kids.