Men should always be leading and making dates even in Ltr. For me I dont view it as a game but I am very conscious of observing attraction levels and how she is interacting with me. A lot of the attraction books talk about how a man is all about drive, purpose, and conquering. Men dont consciencly make the decision to become lazy they just feel like they have won or conquered and they forget what they did in the beginning to attract the woman. They feel they have won so they put it on cruise control.
I will also say that the books all teach a man the a woman should never have to tell you what to do or how to act and if they do their attraction level will plummet even more. Not sure I 100% agree with that because i do feel if your unhappy you need to communicate with him. That said a woman should not have to tell a man how to be a man.
Your attraction level will only continue to decrease unless he starts to step up but I dont see that happening because he is not properly equipped.
