Btrow - Thanks for you're response I suppose all I can say is don't concern yourself with expectations, as I'm beginning to realise limerence and them coming out of it doesn't necessarily mean they'll come back with tails between their legs I feel pride will have a lot to play as well has their inability to look at themselves and what made them do what they did!
Sometimes it is what it is and the MR ends, so be it move on.
AS - Yes she's basically petitioned the courts for D against me, I'm suppose to accept the reasons even though I don't agree as it's blatantly infidelity! I'm waiting for a court official to hand me the papers in person, this is when I'll have no other choice but to respond. I've already talked to a solicitor and am now preparing for unpleasant days ahead...
Thanks all for you're continued interest I appreciate it.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".