Ok, so i messaged WW. Just changed a few symbols as I don't want her to know i'm on here.
"WW, i recieivd your message. If this is @ legal/financial concern, contact my solicitor directly. If this is about something else, i can be reached my email. That said, WW you hurt me deeply and humiliated me. I have been working on myself and my well being. Please Respect this."
Manta, I agree with LH that you should have left the last few sentences off, without those it would have been a perfect response. Those sentences tell her you are still Plan B whereas the rest was being said from a position of strength, power and confidence. See the difference? I know you already sent it but this comment is just for future reference.
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I hope so. Need to contact my solictor today and update him. I'm scared, hurt and feeling lost at the moment. But i must be strong and protect my myself.
What's the hurry? You sent her your solicitor's info, let her deal with it. She may very well not bother. Don't do anything to help her along unless you want to. Provide anything that is required, but nothing more.
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I think she has moved back to her home country and moved in with the AP now. Everything has been so rushed, it's hard to get my head around it.
It has indeed been very rushed, and usually that's a red flag that it's not going to last. The best you can do right now is maintain radio silence and continue to keep contact to business-only. Your sitch reminds me of a friend of mine, I may have mentioned this in your thread before but his W left him and immediately set up house with an OM. They sold their house and business and split the proceeds and then he went dead silent on her. They did not speak for 2 years, then she started pinging him and that eventually led to coffee then dating. Now they live together again and are happier than before. So you never know what will happen. This is more about her than you.
