Oh, and Juju, I see what you are saying after reading about the guy on here. No offense to you fine men, but here we are seeing how looks seem to be trumping all for some of you, and how dating is practice. It made me realize, I was "practice" to a few guys Trumpet guy? I was total practice and "trying something different". It felt pretty cr@ppy. I get when there is a mutual agreement of just sex or no desire for anything serious. But if I definitely see there have been men definitely "honing their skills" on me rather than having any real intention of dating me. I am much more aware now of those possibilities.