I'm sorry - he didn't make any plans for Valentine's Day, gave you the same gift he gave his ex, AND gave you the same birthday present he did last year?
Nope. You're not entitled, you're seeing red flags.
Now -as for giving you the same thing as the ex - that's actually the thing that bothers me least. Often people seem to want to re-experience favorite places and things with their new partner that they did with their ex. I don't think that's laziness - more a misdirected attempt to share who they are with you.
But the other things? Nope.
I've got a terrible association with crappy Valentine's Days - but the one time I mentioned it to a partner (my crazy exBF) he went out of his way to give me a lovely Valentine's Day. Maybe you need to just speak up about what you want? That in the future you want presents unique to you, and expect plans for Valentine's Day. His response may tell you a lot