(((Susy))). Sounds like a really tough night. Don’t feel too bad. Most of us have made similar missteps. All you can do it pick yourself up and get back to focusing on what is best for you and for your daughter. In the future, I would steer clear of drinking too much alcohol. One drink can help ease the pressure a bit but beyond that, probably not the best idea. You want to focus on healthy activities. Re: your friend accusing you of being greedy... that person needs to GAL and mind her own business. Yes...it is good to negotiate as much as you can without having to involve lawyers but you do need to make sure you are protecting yourself and your daughter financially and having a lawyer represent you is the only way to do that. It doesn’t have to be a knock down drag out fight in court which is why you want to make sure you and your L are on the same page in trying to avoid that. My L has been excellent in that regard. I’ve met with her once and exchanged two emails. Our next communication will likely be that my SA is ready to sign. Sigh... not looking forward to that day but it is what it is. You can get through this Susy. Better days are ahead of you. (((HUGS)))
