Hahaha... It's strange which parts of a post people latch onto and reply about.

I think a large portion of it is because I am in a Southern city and there isn't as much of the career-first mentality that is prevalent up North. The bible belt is still the bible belt! It's one of the reasons that I am considering moving away.

In terms of age range 38-42 has been my sweet spot. Nearly everyone I have dated has fallen in that range, which is really the tail end of any chance for children. One of the ladies I am currently seeing is 41 and she has a 3 year old but already told me that she would be open to having another with someone if the right situation arose. Of course, 5 dates in is faaaaar too early to be deciding if it is the right situation.

Neffer, it is serendipitous that the very thing which is helping you heal also provides such a benefit for so many of us. It is a mutually beneficial relationship (unlike many of our MRs!) ¡Gracias por el apoyo! ¡Qué sigas iluminando el camino para tantos!

(a proposito, hoy una chica me regaló una novela de Eduardo Galeano, un Urugayo, creo - Los Hijos de los Días. ¿lo conoces?)


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019