Don't tell her you still worry about her just out of nowhere. Only you can decide what kind of person you are. When you're showing her the door, you can say that you still care about her, but what will she think if you do? Will she think that she's still go you on the hook? Maybe not if you're firm about protecting yourself and what you won't tolerate in a spouse, because you're actions show that even though you have feelings for her, you won't tolerate the affair.
Her moving out will be a wake up call, we just don't know if it will wake her up in a month, 12 months, or 5 years down the road. You will be removing yourself is a good thing IMO.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
