If it were me, I'd have gotten back with in a reasonable time and take solace in the fact that she was thinking about you on V-day weekend (and surely more than that). NC for 6 months is a long time. Just be prepared for her to be laying traps when you do talk.

Originally Posted by Manta
however, if I do the right things, I believe she may come back one day.
You make it sound like you can manipulate her back, when the reality is you have to just be real with her. You saying and doing the truly "right" things is going to piss her off. She physically, literally ran from reality.

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