Thank you sandi2 for responding, Your response was a kick in my nuts and a reality check that I needed. I had that a stupid hope that she may wake up from her dream. After she has not shown for 3 days in the row, I know I have to say to her good bye. You are 100% right I had a fear holding me from doing what I should have done long time ago. I would like to hear from you "I can give you some tips about the type of changes you can make that are more effective in your WW's final decisions and the direction she'll take. I just don't know that you are ready to trust it."
I am planning to ask her to pack her things tonight and move out. Should I add anything for farewell? Should I tell her I still worry about her?
