We don't want divorce, separation, or affairs. We want our spouses. But when we stick around during these affairs, we send the message that we are going to stay when they are involved with someone else.

I have had this conversation many times with my priest, and I told him last week: "The only thing I can do is file for divorce or separation". He agreed. A Catholic priest. I didn't think I was allowed to do that, or that he'd agree with me. It's only our fears holding us back from doing the right thing. I'm getting closer every day, and so are you.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.