They are by no means starving. They had enough groceries for 2 weeks or so. I wanted to make sure they were taken care of though. I also got her valentines flowers, but no mushy note.
Our 13th anniversary is 3 weeks before our mediation. I don't know how to handle that. Our youngest child's birthday is the week after anniversary. I don't want the association of bday with our divorce, but no options unless it goes to court......or we settle well after mediation.
