So why is this a common thing with guys? It does make me feel deceived. Because there were plenty of other guys I could have dated. But he was treating me very nice and it made me not want to search. Now, I am thinking, whats the point? And while I had been doing nice things to reciprocate, I am kind of done right now. And I am thinking, if I feel like that this early (almost 1.5 years) whats keeping me? Its not like we have kids together.