Sounds like a fantastic trip FS. Really glad you followed through with it and discovered it was what you needed. I’m taking a trip with my kids and MIL in March. I think it is something I need as well and plan on soaking up every minute. Personally, I think the group What’s App account is fine. Whatever works for you as long as it doesn’t stop you from detaching and GAL. It’s all about you and doing what is best for you and your kids, IMO. No right or wrong, as far as I am concerned.

I would not be surprised that your H is stalking you on Instagram...lol. I have always maintained he is one of the ones who is going to want to come back.

(((HUGS)))