We don't have kids Nicole. Thing is, it's Valentines weekend. She's calling me from her home country, on a number I haven't seen before. More than likely shes spending time with AP this weekend and he's probably asking her what's the story in regards the Divorce.

It's a mobile number. It could be her AP's, or else shes got a new #. From reading the message, it sounds like she wants to talk about the Divorce/Separation. "Communicate like Adults" is bs in my mind and she wants to take the high ground here. I spoke with my family and they said to ignore, as she's incredibly selfish and it's her way of controlling the situation.

I'm not comfortable talking with her at the moment, especially knowing she's in her country, with him. From my experience, usually, she will try again if it's urgent. She hasn't shown any interest in reconciling or fixing anything since Dday.


BH: 36 WW:33
M: 2
Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018
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1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019
LRT: Oct 2018
WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)