you could do what I did. I don't even know how to deactivate my profile. I was DONE with online dating and he was my last go. I just deleted my apps on phone after the first date. Whether or not it worked out, I was done for a long while. Gave me no temptation to see if he was still on. I think it's just easier to not talk about it, not snoop on it, and just let natural progression take control. You'll know if she I dating others, trust me.