J- there really is nothing to talk about or define. You guys are dating, getting to know eachother. What would be "something a little more " than you have now? You guys are having dates, talking to eachother, having sex..... You aren't seeing anyone else. There isn't much more to have at this point. Kids come later, maybe meeting some friends? But other than that, there isn't much more to have at this point, expect to keep having dates. and they sound like great dates and you even have sexting in between.
M and I never had an R talk. except when he used to make jokes about "other dudes" and I said "you are the only dude in my life. am I the only chick in your life?" and since then, it was pretty much known that we were together. Everything has been a progression of actions otherwise. Christmas eve with the bro, sil and mom. Now the kid meetings after the card that pretty much told me he sees the future with me.
SO, there's no reason for an R talk now. Unless you want to not date anyone else right now.
There truly is no where else to take it but day by day.
