Yeah....just go with the flow. We have fun when we go out, enjoy the sex, and while I know she is open to more neither one of us are pressuring each other. I think it also helps me get more comfortable so I am grateful for her being chill over it. She knows that I have not been in a R that has lasted over a month as well so I do know that makes her a little nervous. I also know she is wanting something long term and that is ok it doesn’t scare me and I do appreciate the pace. She did love the flowers!

I am just trying to take it day by day.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018