I am going to be 100% bluntly honest. A post maybe a week ago has shown you were not detached at all from your ex. Now you are in a committed relationship with not detaching from this one?
Did, I follow you. Checked out your blog. Would you suggest this as something to do to one of your clients? Because you were/care very codependent, haven't spent time alone, and only seem to say the R is over now that you have "committed" to a new woman. And a phychologist of all people would know this isn't healthy.
I respect your journey to be the best you that you could be. But you have to walk what you are going to preach to others. You were ready to take you wife back a week ago if "she leveled up" and now you are in a committed relationship to another woman. You have one foot in one R and and never fully out before you jumped into another. If you want to be the coach and guide others in this world, ask yourself if you would suggest keeping on your journey and growth while having both feet out of an R for a while (especially when you displayed such a high level of codepencence) or you would tell your clients to just move to the next.
I've been here 11 years and I have never seen it work out well this way. Sorry to be so honest and a Debbie Downer, but I have also learned you have to practice what you preach.
