We've agreed that tomorrow morning we'll discuss the logistics of the separation.
When she moves out, how we treat finances etc.
At this stage all of my actions would indicate that I'm proceeding with a legal separation leading to a D, since finding out about her A.
My question is, although I'd probably prefer a trial separation as a first step, and not legal one, I don't want to be seen as talking a step back.
She'll probably temp check me to see if I'm actually detached.
Should I ask what her goals for the separation are? Should I ask if she's made up her mind about ending the marriage or if she's still figuring that out?
Or do I just proceed with talking about the details of how the separation will work?
