Yes we have a common account with a mortgage and a joint credit card.
I can move what cash is mine into another account. I'm not sure if I'll need her permission to cancel the joint credit card though?
This morning we'll sit down with her parents to officially let them now of our sitch.
No doubt there'll be more lies and lots of crying - how their good daughter is simply unsure of her feelings and doesn't want to hurt me etc etc. That she's done nothing wrong but maybe confide in a friend.
I will stand firm and let them know of the facts, and my intentions of a separation.
