Lol.....um not yet from her to me but.........bahaaaaa! I am trying L, I think about moving farther away from the x, I think about my girls, and it's just hard when your the lbs. I got into this convo last night with my friends when we were talking about dating and some of my anxiety. They are divorced but were the initiators so their experience is completely different than someone who was essentially blinded and didnt want the D. It is not a competition but as you mentioned a few weeks ago my x had at max a 1 yr head start emotionally on me. That is hard for people to understand.
