I didn't want to/was blinded by my W ever in a million years having an A. I've accepted she is not the same person I married. A stranger in my W's body.
She is staying the night at her brother's place. He called me to ask if that was ok, to which I replied I have no concerns over where she stays now, so long as it's not here. After 14 years together, we're as close as actual brothers. This [censored] for everyone.
We haven't had sex for over 2 months, and there's no chance of that happening at this stage. 3-4 months ago we were trying for a child. I guess the silver lining here is that we don't have children...
