Confronted the W about OM tonight when she got home.
As expected she pulled out all the stops - played dumb, kept asking me what's wrong, etc, never admitting to anything.
When I presented her with the proof of the air ticket, she says that they are just friends and for convenience booked the tickets together.
She vehemently denies she has feelings for him, but admitted that he may have feelings for her, but hadn't acted on anything yet.
I told her I wasn't going to be the fool who waited around for that to happen.
Here's the kicker, to her she was perfectly justified to book the flight with her "friend" because apparently we had agreed to separate already - we had not, merely had a conversation to entertain it as a way to give her space.
We didn't actually have the talk around the logistics of separating, boundaries etc. She was still in our bed up till last night! Tickets were booked Feb 5 ...the day of my birthday no less.
I told her in plain English that she would not be allowed to sleep in our bed tonight, and that tomorrow morning we could facilitate the actual separation discussions. Not a trial one, but an actual one.
I'm in so much pain. Don't think I'll be getting any sleep tonight.
