Perspective: Lately, i am going through a " why am i here? ", "what is my purpose? " I have one at work but at home?
This is my day to day routine: - 6 am: work - 8h15 am : leave work to drive D16 ( she had her bday on the 5th ) to school and rush back to work - 11h00 to 12h00 lunch - 3pm off work and go pick up D16 at school - 3h45 drive D16 to work - 6h45 meet 2 friends for coffee until 7h45. -8pm pick up D16 at work -8h30 drive D16 to boyfriend' s house 10pm pick up D16 ....
I know it is normal for D16 to want to be with friends. I was the same way at her age. What i do that my mother did not do is all the rides. I live in a very small community and there is not much to do here.
This routine is getting old. I stop myself from leaving this town because of my D16' s schooling. I am alone, lonely and not sure why i am staying here for someone i see 20 min./ day max.
I am looking for advise. Should i uproot her? Ss anyone here made the move and if so where your kid' s grade affected by it? Did it cause problem within the family?
