Going out drinking much more often with her younger single uni friends Putting a lot more effort into her looks when she goes out - but not for me Plastic surgery (something she told me she's always wanted, so I was supportive) Spending much more time on her phone/social media Hanging out with male colleagues/uni friends solo, which is something she never did in happier times She has verbalised that she feels like she has no identity and doesn't know her purpose in life Saying "grass is always greener" things and that there may be people better suited for us, and that we're just too different
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These are all signs she is having an affair with one of her co-workers. Is her phone pass protected? Doe she take it everywhere including the bathroom?
Just so you know I highly doubt she is going through a MLC at age 31.