You sound like you are in a good place Hurt. Good for you! Re: your WW being happy... I wouldn't be too sure about that. Her crying upon entering the home tells me that all is not as solid in her mind as she wants you to think it is.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
Fact is, that I will have to be in contact with this person for the rest of my life, because we have kids, and I choose to think, that me saying goodbye now on the fight for what we were, is what will bring us together much stronger in the future, as parents, possible friends, and who knows what else.
I think this is a great mindset to have and it is one I am trying to adopt myself. It does take some work but I think it is worth it... if not for me and my WAH but for our kids.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
I haven't given up, but I have given up - that makes no sense, but its where I am.
It makes perfect sense to me. Isn't that the goal?
