I just wanted to remind everyone that you are all worthy of love and the best things in life. No one deserves to be in this situation, we are all human and we all made mistakes! Please don't look around and think that those love-struck couples on Valentine's Day have it better. They too have ups and downs in life, and we all have a different time line.
I truly believe that you would not be happier if your S returned, even if you feel that way now and long for them every day. Happiness and love comes from within. Give that to yourself!!! Coming to accept that and practicing that often, is the silver lining in this. No one can ever take that from you!
Blu
Thanks, Blu (((HUGS)))
One thought that hit me earlier was seeing other couples, and the idea that THEY may be NEXT for a BD’ing, or to end up in a sitch like ours.
I’m also learning that happiness and love come from within; hopeful W will do the same in time.
