However this is one of the few angles I have to try and force the realization of her decision upon her.
All it's likely to do is build up more resentment, but capitulating will not earn you any points with her either. I think no matter what you do she'll find a reason to hate you for it. That's just her mindset right now. She is the epitome of a wayward, and that is so much more difficult than a WAW.
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If we sell investments to 'pad each of our singular bank accounts to ease this transition' it makes this process easy for her. I am fine without the extra padding in my account.
Well if it's no harm to you then let it ride.
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I am much more upset that she is isolating me from the kids, telling them to hush up about things, ordering them to block me from any form of electronic communications, and basically blowing up our family for her own selfish actions.
Yeah it's beyond terrible. I just can't imagine what happens to someone to make them do this to someone they formerly loved, it's just bizarre. Like some switch is flipped from "angel" to "devil child spawn of Satan".