BINGO! So the real reason comes out. It's not because younger women are more "free-spirited" (because they aren't, trust me) but because they have less flawed bodies. Just be aware, if that's your priority, you'll likely be sacrificing something else.
I have never hidden the fact of the body type I like. any weight between 115 to 150 and height between 5 and 6ft tall. She could be 5ft tall and 150 and I wouldnt have an issue as long as i was attracted to her. Personality is important also. I like to go out and do things, hiking, dancing, live music, darts, bars, bike riding, and I dont have an issue doing it on a daily basis. Older women do. I dont even have a TV in the bedroom, because to me the bed is for either sleep or sex and nothing else.
I am also not looking for a woman to take care of me. Growing old is part of life. if you are worried about them leaving you just because one gets old, to me that is just plain silly. At any point one could have an accident that could leave them disabled. Just like if a man dates a younger woman and she gets disabled, he then has to make a choice whether he still wants to be with her or not.
Originally Posted by kml
On the same note: if you aren't going to date women who have kids because YOU have a kid, you'll end up dating women who WANT to have kids. Is that what you want? Are you willing to risk a young partner getting pregnant without your consent? Do you want to raise another child at this age? Are you willing to take on the problems with a step-parent who has never had kids second-guessing your parenting child? Again - just be careful what you wish for. A woman your age whose kids are grown might be a better partner than a young woman who still wants kids or someone who is childless by choice and doesn't really like being around your kid.
Main reason i dont date women with kids is not because I have a kid, its because I dont want to be a father figure to someone elses kid. Obviously there are some exceptions like in widows and such, but why should I raise a child when their father just chooses to not be around. I havent decided if I want more kids yet or not, but not all women want to have children. Most of these questions are things that only time will tell, because there is no sure answer to them yet. I plan on getting a vasectomy, so she wouldnt be able to get pregnant without my consent.
My Ex is actually a really good mother. I have no complaints in that area. So my daughter is not looking for a mother figure. I am also not looking to find her one. During dating I havent introduced my daughter to any woman and I wouldnt plan on it. Now if it turned into a LTR then I would consider it then and make an appropriate decision. But I havent run into a woman yet who says she hates kids. I also know that having a child automatically crosses me off of some ladies lists too.
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
