I still need to make some comments to other posts on the forum and my thread (AS, LH, DV, among others), but I do need a bit of help going forward.
Earlier this week, I emailed my L about what my W has basically threatened to do—that if I don’t agree to her parenting plan (or at least come up with a credible or agreeable [at least to W] alternative that is anything but ‘Bo stays here and W leaves the condo to get her own place and visits the kids’), she has threatened to take her kids and get another place, and then I’ll be stuck by myself. What I do realize is that her previous threat of a court order to evict me has not been mentioned in some time, so perhaps she is backing down from that, or realizes it’s not a serious option, or both.
My question is: What kind of proposal should I go for?
I know AS mentioned earlier that I’m basically between a rock and a hard place (yup), but I’m really not up for any potential cake-eating that bird-nesting could bring. I will still maintain that if she is really unhappy, that she should be the one to leave. I will be taking her proposal to my LMFT appt on Monday, and we will talk about it, and I’ll follow-up call the L’s office during my lunch period today to follow-up with her.
In the meantime, I would like to ask the forum here, because I don’t want to go last minute with LMFT, or risk L not calling me back in time to discuss with her: What are my options, if any? I want to look at my options and then figure out what I could live with. Please and thank you!
Have a blessed and enjoyable Valentine’s Day, whatever y’all do, and thank you!
