It seems I am getting conflicting advice here, which I suppose should not be a surprise. Some say 'let her file and do all the work' , some say 'help carry on/move along the D process'.
I guess at the end of the day it is all up to me of course.
If this was a prolonged IHS with anger and kids effected by it, I would be more inclined to hurry along the D. However I believe WW is living a fairy tale life right now with EA / OM and really not has thought all this through yet. I am inclined for her to go through the litigation / mediation process consults to hopefully put some sense in her.
The way I look at it - time is on my side - no matter outcome of Marriage.
