MoveFrwd - understood. But being as how I don't approve of the D (she did not try to work on anything and just threw in towel.. most likely thinking grass is greener with EA / OM) - I am not in a rush to go from marriage that I had no idea anything was wrong to legal D within now a month and a half.
I guess Im not sure your frame of mind. Which do you think has a more likely chance at a positive outcome?
1) you dragging your feet and making it difficult for you to divorce, causing your marriage to go on longer. 2) you providing information as requested and your W is free to make her own choices
I guess my point is that the more you try to cling to the "marriage", the harder she will try to get away and the more she will resent you. Fight for what you want/deserve in the financial and custodial aspects. But forcing her to stay married longer because "you didnt know anything was wrong" or "you dont believe her claims allow for filing": or whatever other reason will only lead to more resentment and rebellion.
