... let me say that that pickyness goes way beyond looks. It's a whole package type of thang.
Pinn,
I understand. For me, it’s not just looks (though that is important and does help), but it’s also emotional and spiritual. Essentially, a well-rounded woman (and as soon as I typed that I thought—not just well-rounded as in the curves sense. Sigh.)
A friend of mine from childhood / college told me that it would take a ‘very special type’ of woman for me. And I thought I had that. And depending on what happens with W and how this plays out, it could very well mean having to consider that again.
Nothing wrong with having standards, having boundaries and being true to yourself. Don’t compromise just to be with someone, and don’t ignore big, screaming red flags to be with someone just to be with someone.
