She hasn't come across as miss snuggle bunny? I thought you said her LL is PT and she is all over youw hen you are going out?

I am also a little confused. You wanted her to emotionally engaged and now she has, it's scaring you?

You don't like cuddle time yourself? Even my ex liked cuddle time after. ANd he is an emotionally disconnected person.

Maybe you are coming into a time where you are trying to figure out what you want for yourself and not base it on what she is willing to give?