I will try not to be blunt but I only have a few minutes. Bare that in mind if it comes across as uncaring. That isn't me.
Anyway that is a tough blow, but there are many different ways to consider this latest conversation:
# It is a reality check on those expectations, which apparently were a bit too high. I don't blame you on that, we are all guilty of it at times. But it does make negative turns harder. # She looked for comfort and fell asleep in your arms. Actions versus words!! # She wants more but she shuts the door on you. # I like what job mentioned about looking at what she said and if you have been lacking, you have an area of focus. If there is no validity, let it slip. I honestly could be accused of not putting W first at the moment. I imagine that it could also be true in your case. Can you look into that. But don't panic and do everything to please her.
Sorry I will try to come back soon to elaborate.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together