On the flip side my first choice would be to work on things and build marriage 2.0 but in reality that probably will not happen.
Same.
I think I mentioned this elsewhere, but my W said a few days ago ‘I never really wanted a D....I just wanted to S for a little bit and have us work on things and then work on recon but because you are doing and saying these things it’s pushing me away and I don’t want that and I have no choice and BLAH BLAH BLAH....’ And when I heard this (but I didn’t say this) I was all internally ‘AYFKM?!?!?!?!??!?? WTF is wrong with you?!??!!???’