Originally Posted by kml
Lol - tv, sex, a glass of wine and home in one hour? Now THAT'S a quickie!


Lol ya know i did not want to say anything but I was thinking the same. Lol.

As for the feelngs Joseph I've had the same - and I often hate it. It's like out of my control. I don't know if it's something biological or broken in me or what but during the pursuit I'm very engaged and interested but often when she's says okay you got me I'm yours (of corse not in those words but you get the point) I sometimes lose interest. Is that why I stayed engaged with wild girl? I don't doubt it - at least have to consider it. I've had others years ago the same where if she backed off or even found another guy, bang I'm totally interested again and even regret losing her. Yet when I had her I didn't feel it.

Now this is not an all the time everytime thing mind you. But it does happen so just know you're not alone. I also find that an understanding partner who is willing to go slow is very helpful. Sadly many don't understand - especially early on.


DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D