I fully agree with kml on this. I know a couple of women who are in their 60's who have embraced their sexuality and their age and are looking for men who can keep up to them. The primary one of these that I know happens to be my 3rd cousin so - we're not dating but I get a big hug every time she stops by to raid my apple tree (not a metaphor).
rex - I've not followed your story at all so I can honestly say that I don't know you from Adam but you remind me of a story that I've posted before. My barber - who I've known for 30 years - once told me that if he was to go "a-wandering" that he would target married women because they could be interested in non-commitment sex. Your postings remind me of that.
For me - and I'm 54, nearly 55 so perhaps a generation older than you - I can't imagine having sex with a woman who I wasn't in an exclusive, committed relationship with. Heck, I can't even imagine smooching a woman who didn't fit in to that category. Call me old-fashioned or a prude perhaps. But that's me. Even when I was younger I still believed in the same principles. And I like to believe that a lot of women think the same way. Normal, every-day women who live their lives, deal with their own crap and who don't rely on any man to validate them as being worthy.
Certainly there are women out there who can be vulnerable to different tactics and who also play those games themselves for their own reasons. But you need to ask yourself. Are you just looking at getting your rocks off or do you want a committed life partner. The first you can rent. The second you have to work for.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
