Originally Posted by ovrrnbw

I understand you want to know and you want to know now, but it aint happening, so you have to accept that and move on. How's your kids? How's your GAL? Are you still pursuing or pressuring your W?


The kids are actually doing pretty well. They adapted to the transition and have fallen into a routine. S5 has memorized the trade off schedule so he knows exactly what will be going on and when. The boys and I have definitely become closer through this, as we've been spending way more quality time together. GAL is going well, I've been running more, hanging out with friends, checked out a few new restaurants in the city. I think I'm going to take the boys to DC this weekend.

I have stopped the pursuit and pressure. When my sitch first started I pursued and pressured like a mad man. We now basically only talk about the boys and logistics. We haven't had any talks about R in almost two months. It has definitely helped both of us as our interactions are much more pleasant than they used to be.


Me 32
WAW 33
M8 T13
S5
S3
BD 09/14/18
S 10/21/18