Don't worry about her getting that bank account, it means nothing. And you can't do a thing about it, so focus your energy somewhere else right this instant. Go run, go play a game, go to a friends house, go watch a game. Quit worrying about how she is dealing with the issues from the marriage. She is in a world of emotion right now too. You're 5 months into limbo. I'm 11 months into it. Check out MLC board, some are further than that by far. Take advantage of limbo.
I understand you want to know and you want to know now, but it aint happening, so you have to accept that and move on. How's your kids? How's your GAL? Are you still pursuing or pressuring your W?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.