I believe you are doing a great job at this. I don't believe you are out of the woods. I hear piecing is even harder than putting the breaks on the D. Lots of work for you to still do.

I believe you can save your M. You are still running a marathon. At some point the strategy and tactics for you change. Only you know when that is.


I do not remember which book I read, but one of steps in the process was called "Together at last". I hope you make it there.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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