I will give her a quick reply when she asks about it: W, In compliance with your requests that no negotiations take place between us outside of court orders, and the court orders do not address our plans to sell investments to pay bills, I am unable to discuss a plan to sell investments to pay for bills. Please consult with your L and draft up your proposal for review by my L. Regards, H”
LB I'm honestly kind of stuck on this. On the one hand your W has painted you into this "litigation" corner, but on the other hand I kind of feel like maybe you shouldn't feed it anymore than you have to. I mean I'm sure it is costing both of you out the butt regardless. Is your position that you don't want to cash in any of the investments right now? Is there a reason for that? I mean they will have to be split up during the D anyway I would think, so whether you do it now or later probably doesn't matter much. If you don't want to for now then just tell her that. "W, I don't want to cash in the investments at this time." If she keeps hounding you about it, then you can say "draft up your proposal and I will review it with my L."
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Single dude, 4 kids, lives with his parents is what I can infer from what they said.
Wow, yet another classic case of "affairing down". I'm glad to hear it hasn't affected you too much. Do discuss it with your L though, because as Twofeet said it may very well help your custody case even in a no fault state.
On a side note, if anyone didn't already think your W was a scuzzy sleazeball then knowing she's secretly been carrying on an affair with a loser living in his parents' basement should convince them!
