I was online dating for a few months and had a good few dates but no one really felt right until i met her. She is as beautiful on the inside as she is to look at. Way out of my league but i guess i got lucky. Because of my D's i have kept LF ( lady friend) a little bit on the outside as they have been through enough. LF does attend family bdays etc but isnt around the home too much. LF is a yoga instructor and psychotherapist and is very understanding about this.
My D is still ongoing but i hope to have it resolved soon.
Thats the news , as i say DB has it nailed. Follow the advice and you can get through this and enjoy your life again.