Sorry to hear about the OM. What did your son have to say about him?
It's seriously pathetic how 90% of the WAS's have to line up something and start an affair before leaving.
Yes, it is pathetic.
It is also pathetic that they tell all kinds of people that are not their spouse how many problems they have with their spouse. I know its part of the process they go through and it will never make sense to us.
I did not probe about him, I am not going to get a restraining order again for asking my kids to tell me more. If they tell me on their own, I can't control what they say. Honestly I don't care too much, just a confirmation of what I suspected. Not the who I suspected, but doesn't make much difference. Single dude, 4 kids, lives with his parents is what I can infer from what they said.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
