D is just about money and kids. So the $10k belongs to the kids side of this equation. Therefore don’t worry about the money for the GAL, it is kids’ well fair that matters and should be used for decision.
The actual money side has few details from you. I am assuming that you are reasonable satisfied with the splitting of assets.
So, kids. You realistically cannot prevent H from having custody. However the kids do get a say in where they live. I know you are full of fear regarding being away from kids, it will get better.
Gerda, you are the primary bread winner and financial it sounds like you have a good deal. The custody sounds like it is better than what would happen if you fight him, not even considering the $10k.
Seriously consider taking the deal. You will feel better when you have arrangements in place. Even if not ideal it will provide stability and knowing where you stand, and that does a lot for a person - living in the unknown takes a toll.
You dear friend know your situation best. Your L has said it is a good deal. It is really up to you. I will support you either way, my vote is always what is best for Gerda and kids - this sounds like it could be. (((Gerda)))
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
