It all still feels so unnecessary... we could have made it. There really were no major issues between us (before the double life started) other than complacency and poor communication. With a little effort from both of us, we could have turned things around. But the key is that it needs to be both of us and my H has made it clear I am on my own in that regard. So... I am just going to focus on accepting WHAT IS and keep moving forward... one step at a time.
A million other members nod in agreement with this...you're doing the only thing you can do DV6...just keep on going!